Helping You Navigate Your Life
The best readings start with a strong question. A question that asks for a simple yes/no answer is a terrible waste of a reading when we have the opportunity to uncover so much more! Below you will find some helpful tips to make your questions shine and get the most and highest quality information out of your reading.
Start by focusing on one area that’s important to you. Something that keeps you up at night. Something you’re uncertain about right now. Think about what the situation is about. What is your desired outcome? What are you really asking? Next think about how to state your question.
Fate-based questions are passive questions. They frequently call for yes/no answers. They are fortune telling in nature and they assume we are powerless to change our future. They frequently start with will, where, who, is and should.
Choice based questions are active open-ended questions. This is the more empowered way to ask for guidance. Answers to these types of questions prompt deeper exploration and connection. They give you the power to change the future and shape it into what’s best for you. These questions frequently start with what, why, how or when.
Instead of saying: Is Mike going to be my one true love?
You would ask:
What can I do to attract Mike’s love?
What is the energy surrounding my relationship with Mike?
Instead of saying: Is this job going to be a good fit for me?
You would ask:
What is the energy surrounding this job situation that I should know about?
What do I need to know about in order to be successful at this job?